The fourth annual retreat takes place on the 3rd-5th July 2010
Our 4th annual retreat took place at the St. David's Park Hotel, Flintshire. Families and specialists come together from all across the globe for support, sharing experience, advice and love. We are so very grateful to this years retreat sponsor.
One of our attendees wrote this about our 2010 retreat.......
"Having seen articles in the local newspaper regarding the blessing and commitment of Amy to Nick and having read about Cockayne Syndrome, Sarah and I felt that we wanted to help this charity in a small way by promoting it in our sweet shop and providing a sweetie buffet for their blessing night. We met Jayne and Amy on a few occasions and we came to admire this young girl who is such a pleasure to be around, she has got bundles of charisma and she will make you laugh and leave you with such a big smile. We also admired the dedication of Jayne and Mark who are so disciplined and focused in helping all the children who suffer from this terrible syndrome.
Our daughter Lauren then befriended Amy and they started to enjoy having fun teenage times together by; going the pictures, watching DVD’s, shopping, sharing girly talk, reading trashy magazines and having sleep over’s. Our two families started to socialise more and we all became such good friends. So we asked Jayne if we could help out at the retreat, we knew it would be something special but at this point we did not understand how powerful a retreat like this is for so many people.
On the Saturday we were not able to arrive at St David’s hotel till early evening so we missed a couple of the activities, but as soon as we got there we started to speak to some of the families and found out about their children and to our horror we found so many stories of many major difficulties that these children and adults with Cockayne Syndrome have had to endeavour over the years. Talking is a powerful tool, we found all the parents were willing to talk and inform us of their plight, which helped us understand more, so when we talk about the syndrome to anyone we have got more knowledge.
Then in the evening the men and some ladies had their testosterone fuelled competitive edge filled, with an evening at the Karting track with Kevin Eeles coming out on top, much to the disapproval of Mark Hughes who lodged a steward’s enquiry, but had to admit defeat in the end, meanwhile the ladies were back at the hotel and relaxing and talking. Then upon returning from the track quite a few of the parents and volunteers went down to the lake to release some sky lanterns, which was a beautiful poignant occasion with many people remembering the beautiful children who had become butterflies. Everyone then just relaxed or went to bed which gave people time to talk and get to meet new families and volunteers.
On the Sunday morning the whole group congregated after breakfast for the group photos, which if people were not close enough beforehand they certainly were after the photo. The organisation was there for all to see as Jayne and Mark expertly organised two coach loads of people to go to Chester Zoo and everyone returned as well. (Only just though, no names mentioned. haha).
Whilst walking around Chester Zoo the volunteers helped families or walked around with families and spent time with them. For Sarah, Lauren and I we walked with the Laurie family who are such a lovely family and we walked and talked and looked at a few animals. We learnt a lot about Thomas, who became Lauren’s special friend. Lauren wanted to take Thomas home as he is such a sweet boy, especially when he swept the hair out of her eyes when the wind blew her hair in her face, followed by a little kiss on the cheek. An everlasting memory was made for me of this and will always be a special memory of mine.
Upon returning to the hotel we had a bit of relaxation time before the question and answer time with the doctors. I really admire these doctors who travelled here from America and Strasburg, who then answered questions regarding the trials which are ongoing and any other questions that arose concerning the syndrome. These doctors epitomise the family feel that ran through this retreat, everyone is together with a common aim. To have doctors who are so high in their field of expertise spending time with these families at breakfast, around the zoo and mingling in all weekend, means so much to these families who put trust in them.
The evening soon came around and after a couple of hours of getting ready, letting the girls work a treat on the make over’s and hairs, (Well enough about my evening) came probably one of the most special moments I have ever seen, which made me proud to be a part of this most wonderful and amazing group of people. Amy and Nicks blessing, Posh and Becks move aside, I have never seen a blessing where there was not a single dry eye in the place. The amount of light flashing from the cameras and people trying to just get a glimpse of the happy couple was to a point that I have only ever seen on television at these star studded movie opening nights.
St David’s hotel was full of people who have supported the charity over the year and made this retreat happen with the money they have donated. The evening is a thank you to them people, from the families and doctors who without the support of such people would not be able to make the long journeys from the likes of South Africa, Finland, Holland, America, Strasbourg and all over the UK. This year’s retreat was made even more special by Nick and Amy having their blessing. CONGRATULATIONS AGAIN TO THIS WONDERFUL COUPLE, NICK AND AMY!
The entertainment then went on and some fantastic acts performed on that evening, my favourite being Slapdash who are probably the funniest people I have ever seen perform yet have the most amazing voices. Yet as the night went on what you saw was all the relationships that had been built up over the previous couple of days shining through. The Spagnoletti boys rocked to the music, Cameron was the party king, Georgia was enjoying moving from table to table. The beautiful thing was that all these children got to dress up and be bridesmaids and Paige boys for Amy and Nick. Long lasting memories.
The Monday morning came around and the retreat was nearing an end, but just before that there was a beautiful poignant memorial where people were asked would they like to light a candle for someone, many lights were lit. The retreat helps families who have lost children, it helps families with children/adults dealing with the syndrome, it helps the doctors to see so many of these children at one given time, it helps the children and adults dealing with the syndrome as they are such loving youngsters, it also helps the volunteers to understand more, which helps in raising awareness.
At the end of the retreat the one thing that was evident was that everyone was asking when the next retreat is as it meant so much to so many people, we are keeping in touch with so many families that we met from the retreat. Even though there is sadness at the retreat, it helps that so many friends are around to share those experiences with. So we all thank Jayne and Mark and all the people who make the retreat the success that it is!!!!"
Thank you from Darran, Sarah and Lauren.